sometimes the chains that prevent us from being free is more mental than physical..

Who decides the limits, who set the rules? All this process is done by none but the human beings. What is the first step before we start doing anything or any task? The answer to this query is “thinking process”. So thinking process is the very first thing which we actually do which involves various stages such as how we are going to start, how we are going to perform and how we are going to end the task and achieve our particular objective but the most important thing is we mentally decide before doing anything that whether we are able to do that specific thing or not? Do we have such capabilities or not? Do we have such potentials or not and this all is decided during the planning phase and thinking process? and unfortunately we all witness many such cases in our daily life if we try to observe where we quit before we start, where we give up before we begin just on the basis of our assumption that we are not able to do this ? Although we are able to do and moreover do it in the best way but our illusions lead us to failure and eventually makes us a looser. In my point of view the factors which contribute in this regard are determination, motivation, confidence and having strong belief that you have potential to do so. And only if we keep two things in mind one that if others can do so I can do as well and second is that you never loose until you quit and you never win until you try. So keep trying although there are certain times when you won’t get exactly what you were working for but in the end one day you will realize that all the other things you have gained during the journey are due to your that particular effort which you did and because you tried. 

By: Ahsan Mahmood Goraya