Listen…but to the right voice..

We all meet different people mainly they are of two different types. One kind of them is going to encourage you while the other is going to demotivate you. Now we have to decide which type of them is going to influence our decisions and our thoughts. Some people are bound to their mental barriers and they believe only in what they easily see and they are never going to get beyond what they believe.

Although talking about facts is an appreciable act but there are certain times when you need to try for the blur destination about which you are hope full but not confident. Because you may or may not get to the destination even if you try but if you don’t even try you are not going to get anything for sure.

Everyone in his/her life faces the state of flux where he goes through abrupt changes which he never expected and he shares the stuff with people and there he is going to get advices. Now almost majority of people are going to talk only about facts and will judge the capabilities of a particular person just on the basis of his past performance not on the basis of his potential his will power and his level of motivation for that particular task which is the actual ingredient to achieve any task. And on the basis their vague judgment they are going to de motivate you by saying you different things like giving you examples and in short they are going to limit your vision to see the possibilities.

But one must remember one thing in his life that no one knows him more then he knows himself. People are going to say things because they are just saying on the basis of their own perception. The person who learns from his mistakes is a wise men but the one who learns from others mistakes is a wiser men. So do consider what people say but never get influenced by everyone. Believe in yourself and have faith. Keep on trying because you won’t get until you try but you are definitely not going to get if you don’t even try.

By: Ahsan Mahmood Goraya